John Assaraf, secret to your best year ever (Part 8/9)

John Assaraf, secret to having your best year ever(Part 7/9)

John Assaraf, secret to having your best year ever (Part 6)

John Assaraf, the secret to your best year ever (Part 5)

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In the air thoughts

So right now as i type this i am on the airplane to California. Being able to take vacation to different city lets me know how fair I’ve came. Before i would’ve spent all of my money carelessly. Learning the value of money and how to respect can bring you to whole different level.

Reading the law of success I’ve learned that saving money is important. Before when i would careless about saving money i wasn’t able to do many things. Well i thought i was in my mind at least. So since saving money I’ve been able to do even more things.

As in being able to watch my savings account grow each month. That makes me want to save more. We may find it hard to save money. Saving money also comes from having self control. Each time if you go into the store and let the atmosphere take control of you. Self control is something you should work on. I’m not simply saying that shopping is bad.

I’ve learned that spending money at stores constantly is making other’s wealthier instead of myself. Instead of focusing on my well being. Not to say that I’m not well of already. But there is always room for improvement. That is something that i constantly strive for.

Settling for less than the best is something that you should not be happy with.

Yours truly
Josten

John Assaraf, the secret to having your best year (Part 4/9)

John Assaraf, secret to having your best year (Part 3/9)

Here’s the 3rd part of the seminar

Hope you enjoy

yours truly
Josten

Guest posting

If you are interested in guest posting here on ncwayoflife.com Go to my contact page and contact me through twitter or email. I will be vacationing starting friday to Los angeles California. The post should be something related to self improvement in all aspects.

So Contact me asap.

yours truly
Josten

Stop Begging! Start Manifesting

Do you remember that first spark of hope you felt when you watched The Secret? I clearly remember the desire that filled my heart, knowing that – Yes, I can make my dreams come true – FINALLY!

But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration? How many of you (and be honest now) started muttering things like:
- “It seems to work for other people, but I just can’t get it right.”
- “I’m frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I can’t. What’s the trick?”
- “Why am I having so much trouble?”
- “I think the universe is against me.”
- “I’m trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!”

Don’t worry, you’re not alone. About 97% of people also couldn’t make the Law of Attraction work for them the first time round. Think about it, just like anything else, you have to practice many times before you see success. A child doesn’t learn to walk without falling over a couple of times, right?

But in practice, everything is easier said and done. When you’re frustrated, it’s hard to stay positive. And it’s especially harder to stay positive when the evidence all around you is screams negativity like the unstable economy or senseless acts of violence such as those recently seen in Mumbai.

And do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive? That’s right – you start attracting negative things in to your life.

So how can you make the Law of Attraction work for you – without getting frustrated? How do those who successfully implement the Law of Attraction do it with such confidence and finesse?
Well, here’s three quick tips so you will never feel frustrated or tired of begging from the universe, because you know how to start manifesting like a pro.

1. Allow Yourself To Receive
Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks, “Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you?” Well, if the child goes on and on asking, the police officer can’t even give an answer, right?

Well, it’s the same thing with your mind. If the only thing your mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe — which is trying to respond — can’t give you a single thing because you’re not allowing yourself to receive!

So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by running around person to person begging for riches, and then wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: It’s because you’re running away too fast for them before they can even reach for their wallets).

Just think of your desires and leave it out there, go away, and trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it is you asked for) when the time is right.

2. Be Patient With Yourself
Receiving takes time.
Sadly, many people give up just a couple of steps before the finish line because they’ve decided that if it’s not working by now, it’s never going to work at all. Worse still are those who throw in more and more energy because they think that with more resources, the results will come faster.

This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in 1 month. You also can’t bake cookies in half the time by doubling the temperature. You’ll incinerate those cookies to ashes!
In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it.

So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you cannot change the natural development time.
If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.

3. Support and Educate Yourself
Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You also need to guidance on how to do it, and also the role models to look up to.

Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the “be all and end all” solution. Well, it’s NOT. “The Secret” is just a small portion. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole answer.

Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself with fried foods and cheesecakes).

So seek and be hungry for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be amongst people or communities where you can support each other, learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have found.

While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service, it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!
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Are they stabbing me in the back? and how to deal with it.

If you’ve ever asked yourself that about someone most likely they are. Being stabbed in the back can be interpreted in many different ways. Someone doing you wrong.

Could possibly being them talking about you behind your back. The key to not going crazy is self control. Whenever you feel yourself get angry or start clinching your fists take a deep breath. Know that violence will not solve anything.

Sometimes we let our emotions teach us how to act. Think with your mind, heart and not your mouth. Follow those simple steps and it will get you further in life. Nothing can hold you back but yourself.

Steps to deal with backstabbers.

1. Be kind to them
2. Do not start acting as they do
3. Believe that everything will become better
4. Know deep down in your heart that it will be
5. Keep a positive attitude
6. Stay calm
7. Simply separate yourself from further association

That may seem like a lot of work. But trust me its not. I learned quite a bit about myself these past few days. People talking behind my back pretending to be my friend.

When things like that happen use it as gasoline to make your success fire even bigger and brighter. It should get you pumped knowing how good you feel now and how even better you will feel. I’m not saying that you do not feel good now . Backstabbers to me are like bee’s you try to stay away from them.

Surround yourself with those alike. Trust me it will make life even better.

Yours truly

Josten

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