How to deal with people who hate you
Posted by Josteen on May 18, 2010 · 4 Comments
Dealing with people who so called hate you can be something hard to deal with. Wanting everyone to like you is a waste of time. Honestly no matter what you do there is going to be at least one person who doesn’t so called like you.
But anyhow you can choose to let that help you or destroy you. I find that it’s easy to deal with people who hate you whenever you take the time to have nothing but love for them. It’s not a easy thing to do. Because we are so trained mentally to get angry back.
But getting angry back and hating them is not the answer. The answer is to find out from them what is the reason for it. Whenever you find that reason make the time to improve on what they said. Doing just that simple practice can make a drastic change.
Here are some simple tips to use
- Do take the time to show love to them no matter what. (It will allow you to have positive power over them)
- Forgive them for not liking you
- Stay positive about their choice
- Always being yourself (Not selling out to become someone else)
Those are the tips i use and continue to use personally.
What are some that you use?
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The tips you have shared are indeed effective but are difficult to implement. It does take courage, control and discipline to master those. In my case, I do my best to be civil and counteract rudeness with kindness.
I use your tips as well as not listening to people’s negative opinions. If I know someone is about to tell me about someone that doesn’t like me, I will stop them before they get a chance to tell me. Being around the right group of people is wise, that way you hear about less drama, which is a waste of time.
That is one of the best ways to deal with people who so called hate one another
Agreed because what we give attention to it you give more power to it.