How to believe in yourself when no one else does
Dealing with no one believing in you may be a hard thing to do. With whatever we try to do and have no support it instills a feeling of why are we even trying. But that is not a reason for us to stop trying.
You have to be willing to do it until you succeed. Put all that you’ve got into it and then some. When you do that each time you will turn it into a habit. A very good one that is beneficial.
Whenever i was younger i had started skateboarding, With dreams of becoming a pro skateboarder. As time went on i did not feel as if i had the support i yearned for. So i thought I’d do a grown up thing and stop. Which was one of the stupidest things to ever decide to do.
Thanks to my brother from another he got me back into it. I’m having fun everytime i step onto a skateboard. Even if there is no one believing in you but yourself its ok. That belief that you have within yourself let it take control and continue to grow. I’m saying that you should believe in yourself when others are wondering how you are capable of doing so.
Tips to believe in yourself when no one else does
- Stay positive
- have a desire for success
- Visualize sucess
- Take action
- Never accept failure (its a process in learning)
- Accept failure (you learn what not to do)
- Keep doing it as long as you are happy.
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Desire means everything
Cause you have to honestly want to achieve success. That’s one of the main things that i’ve come across. With our day to day routine with what we do we should never settle for less than what we can do. If we continue to do what we are comfortable with then how will we grow.
You can say all you want that you want to try something. But until you actually have a desire to do it, then that’s when it will mean the most. So now decide that you will promise me and yourself that you will have a stronger desire to succeed in what you are doing.
Remember Success is a few simple disciplines practiced everyday-Jim Rohn
Busy being busy doesn’t guarantee success
I had first come across the busy being busy phrase from Jim Rohn. He had talked about those who are so busy being busy that’s all they know how to do. They have no sort of clue where they are going. They just are being busy.
Whenever you take upon a task you shall go about it the correct way. Going about it the correct way with a game plan, and a vision of where you want to go is the who key.
Without a vision and a plan of where you want to go is useless. It’s like taking a boat out into the ocean and never having looked at a globe, where you want to go, what to expect and etc. I’m sure there is many other things pertaining to safety.
The Whole point is to have a vision and a game plan. Write down your vision of what you want to accomplish (goals) and how you are going to accomplish them (game plan).
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Too much of good things are bad
Whenever we come across something that is good for us we instill in our minds that it is ok to do it all of the time. Whatever the case may be it’s not the best choice. I had heard this from Jim Rohn in the power of ambition.
I had thought about the time when i found something that would benefit my health and etc. Drinking Naked Juice smoothies would help clean out my system and what not. But at one point i was drinking one every day. It’s like i got hooked into drinking them.
When i should have been drinking them in moderation. Having one every once in awhile. Then i would drink some for lunch and before then i’d have one for breakfast. Doing just that was complete overkill. Jim Rohn had said an apple a day will keep the doctor away, But eating only apples is not good.
I’m not sure if it was the exact words but it was something along those lines.
Just make sure whatever it is that you are doing its not the only thing you are doing.
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How to be Grateful for people you don’t like
Being Grateful for people that we do not like can be a very hard thing to do. I for one have experienced times where i found it hard to do. Being so used to dealing with people by being angry towards them and not forgiving.
But that’s not the type of life that we should live. It may be the life that some people live, that doesn’t mean that you have to. To be successful and living a fulfilling life is totally impossible to do so with anger, jealousy and hate.
Those components are a blockage that has built up. The more anger, jealousy and hate that we let out it just continues to block us even more and more. I believe that it’s just as easy to be grateful for people as it is to hate them.
The way to start being grateful for the people you don’t like is to take a interest in them. Nowadays many of us are to interested in ourselves. Once you take a interest in others it can change alot.
Tips to be grateful for people you don’t like
- Take a interest in them
- Joke and laugh with them
- Speak to them even if it’s just to say hi
- Find a reason to enjoy them being around you
Why worrying is worthless
It simply is worthless because for one it has no major value in it for yourself. Not unless you enjoy being stressed, sick and feeling bad.
“It is not work that kills, but worry.”
African Proverb
“I’ve seen many troubles in my time,
only half of which ever came true.”
Mark Twain
What are you worrying about right now? Is it health? Money? Friends? Family? If so do yourself a favor and stop. The results of what happens in our lives is not up to us. The main thing is how we react to them.
If you put your faith in God then magical things can happen. Knowing that and doing so has made a drastic change in my life ever since I’ve done so. Whenever I’m unsure about something I’ll choose the best choice and put the rest in god’s hand.
Worrying is natural for us to do. But it’s not something that we should be accustomed to doing. Take a different approach and start leaving worry at the place were it should be instead of carrying it around daily.
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Why Positive thinking does work
Positive thinking works whether you believe it to or not. It’s not some new thing to do just to lie to yourself. It is a simple practice that one can do to become more than they already are.
Positive thinking allows the hard to not seem so hard any more. Positive thinking is more than just thinking. It’s taking action while thinking positive. Therefore making the action that is being taken more powerful.
If you are trying to succeed in business without thinking positive there is just no way that you are going to be able to succeed. Plain and simple.
Try this out, for a day everything that you do from the moment you wake up be a negative person. At work, home, wherever you go and do. See how it makes you feel.
Then try it with positive thinking. Wake up and feel good. Smiling thankful that you are awake and able to enjoy life. Then with everything that you do and come across think positive.
Do those two tests and see how much of a difference you will have with your belief about positive thinking. As for those who still do not believe in it. Sooner or later they will.
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How to stop worrying so much
The quote in this picture says what you are worrying about right now is a distraction from whats really important in your life.
Worrying is simply just a way that we entertain ourselves when we become bored. Cause whenever you are not bored you do not become worried. Therefore the mind does not have any space to do so.
You can create simple steps to not allow yourself to worry. Start taking more control over your thoughts. Instead of it being vice versa.
Tips to stop worrying so much
- Relax
- Think positive thoughts
- Gratitude
- Become busier than you are
Those are a few tips that you can use to stop worrying so much.
What are some tips that you use?
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