How to deal with people who hate you
Dealing with people who so called hate you can be something hard to deal with. Wanting everyone to like you is a waste of time. Honestly no matter what you do there is going to be at least one person who doesn’t so called like you.
But anyhow you can choose to let that help you or destroy you. I find that it’s easy to deal with people who hate you whenever you take the time to have nothing but love for them. It’s not a easy thing to do. Because we are so trained mentally to get angry back.
But getting angry back and hating them is not the answer. The answer is to find out from them what is the reason for it. Whenever you find that reason make the time to improve on what they said. Doing just that simple practice can make a drastic change.
Here are some simple tips to use
- Do take the time to show love to them no matter what. (It will allow you to have positive power over them)
- Forgive them for not liking you
- Stay positive about their choice
- Always being yourself (Not selling out to become someone else)
Those are the tips i use and continue to use personally.
What are some that you use?
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How to be great without trying
Lately I’ve been experimenting with being 100% relaxed while skateboarding and blogging. In other words just letting it come natural. Not trying so hard to do a trick or write.
I must say it’s been working. I’ve noticed that whenever i write or skate from my heart it’s more enjoyable. Therefore it doesn’t become like a chore. That is the last thing that i want to happen and i will not allow it to happen.
One of the main things i believe in being great without trying is you got to have passion. The way to tell if you have a strong passion for something is to see if whenever you are in a conversation if you’re able to stop talking about it.
Some tips to being great without trying
- Be yourself
- Stay positive
- Expect nothing but the best
- Never let others determine your greatness
- Live it and breath it
If you know what you are worth go and get it-Rocky
The headline to this post is from the speech Sylvester Stallone gave to his son in rocky. After hearing that i sat and thought for a few minutes. There are some other parts to the speech as well. Here’s the video
The speech is the truth about life. We let others determine what we do and who we become. The truth is to be able to take the hits no matter how many times we get hit. That is the whole point behind those who are able to deal with failure and those who are not.
One thing that stuck out to me about the whole speech was when Sylvester said until you start believing in yourself you will not have a life. I thought about my belief in myself for a bit. It helped me believe in myself even more.
What are some inspirational videos you’ve enjoyed?
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How i learned to cure insomnia
A few weeks ago i would be sleeping till about 5 am or so. I’d wake up and go use the bathroom. Then when i’d get back into bed I’d just be laying there. Trying to fall back asleep and not being able to.
This continued for a couple of days. Afterwhile it got kind of annoying. I’ve been reading Dale Carnegie’s how to stop worrying and start living. In there he said one of the ways to cure insomnia is to be so busy during the day that at night time you will fall right asleep.
So ever since then whenever i go out and skateboard i make sure that i give it my all. Not just so i will be able to sleep because i will know that i spent my day well.
Simple tips to cure insomnia
- Do a good day of hard work
- After a certain time at night cut out sugar based drinks
- Shower before relaxing at night
Just a few that i use. The list can vary from time to time.
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How to stop worrying so much
The quote in this picture says what you are worrying about right now is a distraction from whats really important in your life.
Worrying is simply just a way that we entertain ourselves when we become bored. Cause whenever you are not bored you do not become worried. Therefore the mind does not have any space to do so.
You can create simple steps to not allow yourself to worry. Start taking more control over your thoughts. Instead of it being vice versa.
Tips to stop worrying so much
- Relax
- Think positive thoughts
- Gratitude
- Become busier than you are
Those are a few tips that you can use to stop worrying so much.
What are some tips that you use?
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Getting rid of anxiety is simple as 1-2-3
In our life there is going to be quite a bit of times were we are scared. Most cause of the fear that presents itself. A simple step to do so is to first be honest with yourself.
A good speech you could say to yourself is i know I’m scared of trying but I’m going to go for it any way. That is one that i use. It helps me calm down and not be so afraid any more.
Our minds are the main reason that we are afraid. Along with the media, friends, family and etc. That does not simply mean that we are going to allow, them to continue molding us into how they think we should be? If your fine with that then keep on doing just that.
But i’m pretty sure you want more than that and you deserve better. Take sometime to really analyze the whole relationship you have with yourself overall. With the goals you want to achieve. Those that you’ve achieved. Also what you are afraid of.
”Face your fears that’s the only way you’ll get rid of them”-Jim rohn
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I can’t accept not trying
photo credit: Jchetan Neither should you accept it. If there is something out there that you’ve been wanting to do, do it. Make sure you give your all as well. Not trying can start and build stress upon yourself.
Meaning that once you don’t try it tends to repeat itself. Its all whats on the inside that counts. You should have the desire to give it all you’ve got and then some. If you want to be the best do the best you can.
At times it may feel like what we’re doing is not worth it. Getting discouraged can become easier and easier to do. The secret to that is to keep going any ways.
Today no matter where you are make the decision that you are going to give anything you do your best. And mean it and stick to it.
Things to make your life more fun
I want to start this off by saying sorry for updating so late. I had went skateboarding yesterday and got hurt. Sprained my wrist and bruised my lower back. But any how I’m feeling a little bit better.
We all want to make our life more fun. Day in and day out doing the same things over and over can become boring. I personally like doing things that i’ve never done before. It keeps me alive and excited.
One of the main reasons i enjoy skateboarding so much is doing things that scare me and landing them. I’m not saying go out and go sky diving or bungee jumping. More so if you believe that will make your life more fun do it.
Tips to make your life more fun
- Start doing things you’ve been putting off
- Laugh daily
- Smile
- Be adventurous
- Be positive
- Be open to new things
Those are a few simple tips that i use to make my life more fun. That is what life is all about enjoying it from the beginning to the end.
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5 Simple ways to deal with getting laid off
Well recently i got fired from my job. That was a very very hard thing to deal with. To me i felt as if it happend for a reason. Knowing that nothing but goodness is coming my way.
Also i thought about how many people dealt with the same thing i experienced. Some may never recover mentally and become scared. Scared because of not knowing what to do if money run’s low or just not having that mentality of being covered by a job.
5 Ways to deal with getting laid off
- Do not get upset. Throwing a hissy fit like a child. Remember and say to yourself that there is plenty of other jobs out here.
- Do not let time fly by without learning. It’s easy to get bored when you do not have to be somewhere at a certain time. So conquer that boredom with books, audiobooks and etc.
- Know that you can achieve what you wanted ever since you worked at your previous job
- Take care of yourself
- truly do what you want for a change
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My Top Goals for 2010
The goals that i have written down are from 2 months ago. After i achieve them i will re write some new ones to achieve in the next 6 months.
My Current Goals
- Skateboarding handrails : Checked
- Living in California : Still deciding and debating
- Shop Sponsorship : Skateboarding is something that i fell in love with as a young boy. I’ve been hooked ever since
- Ollieing 8-9 stairs easily: I will be doing this soon. I’ve been putting it off to long
- Set up a personal development membership site with a Joint venture: Setting up a membership site devoted to helping people improve they’re lives has been something i’ve always wanted to do. Being more in touch with people. If anyone is interested in partnering up i’m all for it .
Those are just a few goals that i have at the moment.
What are some of the Goals that you have?
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